Comments on: The Can Pourer

By: mim L

mim L — Sat, 27 Sep 2003 00:57:14 +0000

I know I jumping in here nearly a year after this thread ended- but just in case there are some new ppl snooping around…

Did you ever wonder why its the GUYS mitzvah to get married? Having a bit of a feminist side – this fact always used to get me really ticked off…until a rabbi of mine explained it to me thus..

Girls (for the most part) have a natural desire to get involved in a committed relationship (eg marriage) – Don’t believe me? How many of you gals can’t honestly say you didn’t play “house” growing up- or “wedding” once or twice…or 100,000 times?

Ok then:)

Guys on the other hand DO NOT tend think this way- many have a hard time “settling down” to some degree or another-…SO, if the guys didn’t have the mitzvah to get married- many probably wouldn’t make it a point to…

Proof positive that yes,

G-d knows, Men have commitment issues:)

By: keren

keren — Wed, 30 Oct 2002 03:18:41 +0000

good for you!! don’t stop writing- you are so good at this. we all feel the same about those men- but don’t give up- there are a few good men out there… and one of them is yours. bekarov, love.

By: Sara

Sara — Sun, 27 Oct 2002 15:58:07 +0000

Yikes… these ppl are really out to get you, arent they?
Well I’m on your side, girl and you are doing a fantastic job… atleast by looking at the light side of all this dating and sharing it all with us, the strangers of the outside world. I’m sure lots and lots of ppl appreciate it!
Maybe you should have one part of this site for all the ppl who think you should continue writing…
And you nasty ppl out there trying to stop her, first of all, there is not one bit of loshon hora in any of this, as none of us know who anybody is, and second.. whatchu got botherin you? Just mind your own business and dont open a website yourself if you care that much. Why do you care bout what other ppl are doin?

By: girlpower

girlpower — Thu, 24 Oct 2002 07:05:04 +0000

you go girl! love your work! dealing with this lot made me go lesbian.
keep up the strugle (and if you ever decide to bat for the other team, drop me a line

By: Shu

Shu — Thu, 24 Oct 2002 05:30:50 +0000

At least you had to tell him,
at the end of this GREAT date:
“Have a nice more 6 years ALONE!”

or, as CHAZAL already said:
“Grow up Double O Seven!!”

By: Kelly

Kelly — Thu, 24 Oct 2002 02:04:43 +0000

Great story, She. I’m so glad you haven’t let the nasty people silence you.

Kelly

By: She

She — Thu, 24 Oct 2002 01:36:58 +0000

Tell him I said Hi.
Oh and,
get over yourself.

By: shimra

shimra — Wed, 23 Oct 2002 23:19:22 +0000

get a life, you know who

By: you know who

you know who — Wed, 23 Oct 2002 23:10:20 +0000

dear she
we hoped that you would close down this silly site.i guess your giavah is just too great.we hope the rabbis there will be happy to hear from us.oh and the rebbe should also be interested that someone in his sem is doing this type of thing.we tried but you just won’t listen.

By: ze uzzer German

ze uzzer German — Wed, 23 Oct 2002 20:05:49 +0000

My goodness! Pouring the can for a girl – so THAT’S what does the trick … Are we EVER going to understand you girls?? I mean, pouring a can …

B.t.w. I happen to know this VERY nice family, originally from India, the Kanpour family – and you know what? Three girls and not a single boy. That’s what I call tragedy. Just imagine how THAT would have felt – getting a can poured by young Mr Kanpour …